“Hello, and thank you for flying with us,” is a common sentiment when boarding or deplaning a flight. The pilot keeps the guests informed about the flight conditions and times, and the stewardess extends warm gratitude as they serve and assist passengers during the flight, but guests have a role to play as well. 

Airplane seating can be tight, with the exception of first class and business class. It’s essential for all passengers to conduct themselves in a manner that’s respectful and considerate of themselves and their children. There are some common rules to fly by to make time in the air cozy instead of disturbing.

• Avoid encroaching on your seatmates’ space with arms, legs, or personal items. Remember the rule of thumb: the middle person gets the two inside armrests as a consolation prize for sitting in the most undesirable seat. 

• Reclining is permitted, but be sure to check behind you first. If the person behind you is using a laptop or eating, give a polite warning or recline slowly.

• Always use your headphones for all audio and video, and when talking, speak in low tones.

• Avoid bringing strong-smelling foods into the cabin. Odors can linger on for the entire ride.

• Taking off your shoes on the plane is common; be sure to wear clean socks if you decide to do so. You should never go barefoot on the plane. Of course, you should keep your feet to yourself and off seats, walls, or armrests.

• Board and stow luggage efficiently; don’t block the aisle. If possible, place your carry-on in the bin above your seat to avoid disrupting others. 

• Deplaning should be done one row at a time, starting from the beginning of the plane. Wait until it’s your turn to grab your belongings from the overhead bin and begin to exit.

• Remove headphones and make eye contact while being served. Return positivity and politeness by saying “please” and “thank you,” and pay attention during the safety briefings.
• Reschedule your flight or wear a mask and use disinfectant wipes to avoid spreading germs.

• Avoid personal grooming (such as nail clipping and hair brushing) while in your seat, but chewing gum or mint is suggested to maintain fresh breath in a small seating area.

• Politely decline if asked to switch seats if you don’t want to, unless it’s for a parent and a small child.

• Let others on your aisle out gracefully if you need to get up.

In a perfect world, every flight would be filled with thoughtful passengers. Since that’s not the case, when you run into conflict on a flight, stay calm and communicate respectfully to seek a compromise. Passengers can resolve most conflicts quietly and effectively, ensuring a more pleasant flight for everyone. The crew should only be involved if necessary.